Ruang Berimajinasi, Belajar, dan Berkarya

As a person living miles away from home, I experience lots of things. I learn a lot from those experiences and I believe that it would be so worthwhile for me now and in the future. One of my findings is about what a friend is. When we stay away with our family members, we are supposed to find the other ones that can take over their position. In short, friend plays important roles in this case and I do find unique things about that too that may be interesting to share in this article. Generally, there are five types of friends that I would like to discuss here, they are loyalist, advisors, adventurer, leader, and demure. Loyalist, is a type of friend that is never absent when we need their helps. They magically have a reason to come and help us happily. Sometimes, they are even more concerned about their friends than their own. I luckily have a friend who is a loyalist. Once I was sick after work, I called him to take me to the clinic at 11.00 PM. I knew he might be so exhausted b...

Getting older is something we can’t avoid. When our age has reached 25, people start to panic regarding to maturity. Often times, people issue that we have been officially mature when we have stepped ahead to a marriage. Somehow, marriage is fine as it has been a need for every individual who initiates to do so. It is because in my country, living together without having legal status is claimed as an illegal relationship which is taboo. A few people come to a decision to a marriage just because they want to have an acknowledgement from society that they have a legal status as husband and wife so they can live together and do what they are allowed to do such as sexual intercourse. Some other people may assume that they are in need of getting married because they think they are no longer young. These people formulate the considerations of it by the age, regardless their psychological states, maturity, and readiness. The other reason is caused by the jealousy. These people feel jealous...