Identity Problem

If you feel confused to define who you are, you might have an identity problem. A few people think it is not really matter, yet I propose that identity problem or identity disorder plays significant role in my life. I used to have it before and I was painfully frustrated. Then, what is identity problem? Wikipedia says that identity disorder was 'downgraded' to Identity problems as research indicated that distress over one's identity is so common, that it might very well be considered part of the normality. It is not surprising if some people are still unable to even know who they are. Bear in mind that every single person on this planet is unique. Following the track of successful people is okay, but if we have to totally change our identity and erase our uniqueness, that will be a disaster for our life. We can actually copy some inspiring ideas done by some people beforehand, yet we do have to look at our capacity. Copying something based on physical things beyond our capacity will only create jealousy and negative thoughts in our mind. In result, we will be bored for a long time. More than that, we’ll be affected with a serious disease of something which has to do with our insanity. The level of boredom in this case is quite high. How to solve then? I personally have a problem with my adaptability. At first, I was so angry with myself as I cannot mingle easily as somebody else. I need time to do so. I will only be okay to get together, laugh, gossip, or discuss with people who have the same mindset with mine. Therefore, I will just say “hi” or “smile” to them. I thought it was my stupidity trapped in my body, but then I understand that we cannot equalize people with somebody else. It’s me with my own style! The character growing in our body has its own strength and weakness. So, I don’t care with what people said, but I’ll always attempt to be nice to them though. This note will not be as long as my other notes before, the thing is you have to understand that you are really expensive and exclusive, so let us keep our exclusivity on. Good luck!